Hey loves,

You’re training hard, eating right but gains are slow? Let’s talk about stress. Stress is a huge killer of muscle gain and progress at the gym.

Why is that the case though? Let’s understand how closely intertwined the body is with our minds. Furthermore, which one of the two is governing this process of muscle growth?

The mind-body connection is possibly one of the most underrated parts of understanding this conundrum.

The body is so highly intelligent that it can sense even the slightest dangers or disrupters. It’s designed for adaptability meaning it will go only where it it’s highest goal of survival is achieved.

What this means in the context of fitness is that our bodies possess an intelligence separate from our conscious minds. Our desire for the muscles to grow, adapt and respond to training because “we said so” unfortunately doesn’t work in this context.

Us being able to function optimally in a stressed state or even thriving under pressure does not mean our bodies can grow muscle in this state.

Muscle doesn’t thrive under constant pressure, it thrives in two states: being built at the gym and in a well-fed relaxed state.

When trainers, coaches and experts say “you need to reduce stress to grow your physique”, they are literally saving your gains from self-sabotage.

In the state of fight or flight, the body is safely protecting your prioritized functions: aka sleep, overall brain function and organ functionality.

Muscle gain happens in a relaxed state where the body has access to other tasks besides its own survival.

It is therefore crucial that we learn to relax for muscle gain as critically as we would learn how to perform a squat with proper form.

Let’s dive deeper into this subject.

The Science: How Stress Affects Muscle Growth:

The stress hormone cortisol plays a role in muscle breakdown & recovery delay. It impacts bodily processes like sleep, hormones (testosterone/growth hormone) and energy.

Chronic stress (aka: having high levels of cortisol) creates a catabolic environment which can in turn, sabotage your muscle gains.

The body stops responding to training, you lose muscle gains and you suffer from the other consequences of stress (ie: bad skin, ageing, etc).

Signs You Might Be Too Stressed to Build Muscle:

• Fatigue despite resting
• Increased cravings or poor recovery
• Mood swings or lack of motivation

Practical Ways to Destress Without Slowing Down Your Grind:

• Breathwork, walking, or yoga as part of active recovery
• Sleep hygiene tips
• Mental deloads: unplugging without guilt
• Journaling or mindfulness for high achievers

How Resting Actually Builds Your Body

Resting builds your body more than doubling down on intensity. Remember this for as long as you train, you tear muscles in the gym, but you grow in recovery.

Muscle protein synthesis is the process your body uses to build and repair muscle after training. This process can only successfully be achieved in a “parasympathetic” aka: relaxed and calm state.

Tara’s Personal De-Stress Routine:

Here are some of my favorite ways to de-stress:

• Taking a bubble bath
• Lighting a scented candle
• Going for a long walk
• Yoga or meditation
• Prayer
• Church and community-building
• Going to the beach
• Drinking tea
• Taking a melatonin or magnesium supplement
• Taking a nap
• Getting a massage

Conclusion

Add rest and relaxation to your workout plan not as weakness, but as a secret weapon. Your body simply cannot build muscle when its primary objective is to survive a suspected danger (in fight or flight mode).

Simply add in a relaxation activity into your daily routine and your gains will be secured!

I hope that you guys enjoyed this blog post on Relax to Grow: Why Stress Management Is Essential for Muscle Gain, please let me know what you thought about it in the comments section below!